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LOVE

今晚看的酸酸甜甜香港地真的很精彩。而最令我印象的是冬至與天娜談情那一幕，冬至告訴天娜世上最珍貴的東西是愛。因為我也曾因此細想這是否真的呢?但最後結論是這句說話與很多金句例如:錢唔是萬能，但是冇錢就萬萬不能一樣，是千錘百鍊，難以推翻。

但愛這樣東西真的是很複雜，因此心理學家Erich Fromm才用了一部書去討論Art of Loving (可往http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/0060958286/ref=sib_db_rdr/002-2496046-6448023#reader-link，它有幾頁免費試閱)。而對我來說愛更是令我頭大。

我為人好聽點是比較含蓄，難聽就是不善於表達自己的情感，再難聽點就是呆，不懂向其他人表現自己對他們的愛。我懂得的唯一方式就是送禮。我當然了解有其他方法去表達你對他好，表明你愛他會更好。言語是最好的途徑，甜言蜜語誰不愛聽?但我就是膽怯，怕去用言語表達。很多時也是開不了口。細想起來我也未曾向爸爸說一聲我愛你。對媽媽也是開玩笑時才會說，也未曾認真的對她說過。

但日久見人心，我深信你對人好，他一定會知道，只是遲早的問題。我與家人間的愛也是在心中，不必用言語明示。一個電話，一句問候，一份禮物已足夠表現。那些甜言蜜語也是多餘，當然有是錦上添花^____^

決定要寫這題目時，即時想起Art of Loving這本書，Aspects of Love 這套音樂劇及Perhaps Love這首歌:

Perhaps Love Lyrics
Artist(Band):John Denver

(Placido Domingo)
Perhaps love is like a resting place
A shelter from the storm
It exists to give you comfort
It is there to keep you warm
And in those times of trouble
When you are most alone
The memory of love will bring you home

(John Denver)
Perhaps love is like a window
Perhaps an open door
It invites you to come closer
It wants to show you more
And even if you lose yourself
And don`t know what to do
The memory of love will see you through

(Placido Domingo)
Love to some is like a cloud
To some as strong as steel

(John Denver)
For some a way of living
For some a way to feel

(Placido Domingo)
And some say love is holding on
And some say letting go
And some say love is everything
And some say they don`t know

(John starts joined by Placido)
Perhaps love is like the ocean
Full of conflict, full of pain
Like a fire when it`s cold outside
Or thunder when it rains
If I should live forever
And all my dreams come true
My memories of love will be of you

(Placido Domingo)
And some say love is holding on
And some say letting go

(John Denver)
And some say love is everything
And some say they don`t know

(John starts joined by Placido)
Perhaps love is like the ocean
Full of conflict, full of change
Like a fire when it`s cold outside
Or thunder when it rains
If I should live forever
And all my dreams come true
My memories of love will be of you

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posted by 小威Steven @ 2:42 上午